First up! If the term Sugar Tits offends you, then this isn’t the place for you! But Thank you for Popping by! If you are on board with Sugar Tits then Hello there you beauty!! So let me explain why thats important. I have been so bloody careful over my life, to say the right thing at the right time to the right people. And thats all good, but if the words I want to say don’t get said for fear of someone not liking it, then I stop being me! And thats what I did! I stopped being me! Not anymore GF (Girlfriend for uninitiated!) I am me! In all my 5’11” Glory! I welcome you to join my Tribe as an honorary Queen Sugar Tits Belter!! Welcome!

Welcome to my Blog and My Glorious New Website! I hid my light for so long. Under huge clothes because I was told for so long how big I was and, I believed what I was told! I hid myself in suits in a corporate world in order to climb the career ladder. I allowed people to speak to me as if I didn’t matter, because I needed the pay packet. I allowed people to take advantage of my good nature, as I was eager to please. I watered down who I was because I thought it might be easier that way.

The truth it, its not easier! It is not right to accept your lot. It is not Okay to be spoken to like a piece of shit. It is not Okay to be sacked because your boss just has a bad day. It is not Okay for someone to make shit up about you and try and ruin your life for their own gain. It is not Okay to accept that this is just them having a rough time. This is all NOT OKAY.

Let me tell you this. Coming out of your Chrysalis or your cave – whichever way you want to see your reawakening, is bloody amazing. Change doesn’t need to be hard. It just needs you to make the first move. Once you do, you will feel the power of being you and standing up and speaking your very own truth! Thank you for the feedback but Bollocks! No I don’t choose to be spoken to that way! Or, Thank you, you can stick your job up your arse! Or thank you Universe for another amazing opportunity for me to shine. Whatever you want to say – just be you.

You will lose people along the way! You absolutely 100% will. Why?! Because they like the unassuming you. It makes them comfortable to know you are the way you are. It’s part of their normality. You changing may make them feel uncomfortable. That is more about themselves than it is about you. You just be you GF! You let Your Sugar Tits Shine GF and stick around for more ramblings as they flow!

Jules x